7 Sure Signs That Your Date Is Going Well.

The first date is a big deal—at least, that’s what rom-coms and romantic movies have taught us. Magazines were made of this: “How to prepare for the first date and Was your first date a hit or miss?” It feels like a lot is pegged on the first date.

As a result, a lot of emphasis is placed on the activities leading to the date and after the date. What should you wear? Where will you meet? And what activities can you do? Will he call after the date? Is he the one? Therefore, the pressure of the date and the fear of what comes next rob you of being fully present during the date.

Now that we are grown, we all know rom-coms are just fantasies. Not the real deal. So, relax, he is probably not the one, but you can still enjoy yourself. However, to ease your mind, here are 7 signs to look out for that suggest your date is going well.

1. They Are Engaged in the Conversation.

If the conversation is flowing during the date, then it is a good sign the date is going well. It is a huge relief when you are able to talk with a new person, even if it’s just getting to know them. If there is a back-and-forth of asking questions and responding with thoughtful answers, it’s a good sign they are genuinely interested. When both people are engaged, conversations flow easily without awkward silences. Conversations about anything and everything keep your date going for longer. You may discover common interests and lay the foundation for a second date.

2. You Have Chemistry.

During your date, you can notice if you have chemistry through body language. If your date mirrors your movements subtly like matching your smile or adjusting their posture, or lingering eye contact, they may be signalling that they are attracted to you without realizing it. If his face lights up as he talks to you and his eyes pop in excitement, then this can show that he is enjoying your company. If your date likes you, he may try to get as close as he can. If you are also leaning forward into him while he speaks, laughing at his jokes, you are catching his vibe, and there is chemistry.

3. You Are Smiling and Laughing Often.

Smiling and laughing are signs of enjoyment and comfort. If your date is laughing at your jokes and stories, then that’s a good sign. It shows they are having a good time and they are relaxed. Also, it shows that they feel positively towards you. If you are laughing so hard that your ribs hurt a little, you are probably enjoying yourself. Even when something awkward happens, and you both laugh it off instead of sitting there in silence. It shows that you have a good rapport.

4. They Make Consistent Eye Contact.

Eye contact is a strong indicator of connection and interest. You can have unspoken conversations with your eyes. If your date maintains eye contact, it suggests that they are invested in the interaction. It also indicates that they are focused on you. When your date is not distracted by his phone or is shifting awkwardly in his seat and looking around the room, then it means the date is going well. Also, if there is a playful sparkle when you look into their eyes, things are good!

5. The Date Is Going for Longer Than Expected.

When you set the first date, it would likely last for an hour or two. But five hours later, you are still talking and laughing on the date. The waiters are furious that you are keeping them waiting, and the closing time was forty minutes ago! If you lose track of time in conversation or activity, it means you are relaxed and enjoying yourself. If they are not in a rush to leave, they may suggest moving to another spot or grabbing another drink to keep the date going. It is a good sign.

6. They Compliment You.

Compliments can be a sign of attraction and admiration. If your date compliments your appearance, personality, or even your sense of humour, they are subtly letting you know they appreciate you and enjoy your presence. If they can’t stop raving about how beautiful you are or how you light up the room with your smile, then it’s a good sign. They are gassing you up in a bid to warm their way into your pants or heart. Either is good!

7. There Is a Mention of a Second Date.

The date is not yet over, but he keeps casually referencing things you could do together in the future, which is a good sign. Perhaps they are mentioning an event they want to go to or a place they want to show you. It is a strong hint that they are interested in seeing you again. Future-oriented conversations show that they already imagine spending more time with you.

The Take Away.

The most important sign is how you feel in the present moment. Silence all the chatter and listen to your body. So, relax and be present. Enjoy the presence of the person in front of you, the activity and the conversation. Tomorrow will take care of itself. Enjoy the here and now!♥