There is always surmounting pressure to get Valentine’s Day right. To plan the perfect date and get the details right, down from location and activity to the clothes you wear. To do it bigger and better than last year. And if something is off, it could literally mean the end of a relationship.
That said, you still want your Valentine’s Day to be special. Whether you’ve been together for a few weeks or several years, you want it to be out of the ordinary. Here at Discovering Her, we believe the recipe for a perfect Valentine’s Day is quality time. Therefore, we have compiled a list of unique date ideas you can try. Read on and plan a day that Cupid would be proud of.
1. Sip and Paint.
Connect with your artistic side this Valentine’s by attending a sip-and-paint event. Together with your partner, you can paint on a canvas and explore your creative side. These events are designed to be relaxing and fun and are often scheduled in the afternoon or at night.
For an event organized in the season of love, you can expect the ambience to be romantic, with Valentine’s Day decorations and cosy lighting setting the mood. You also get a glass of wine as you paint under the guidance of an expert. It is the perfect opportunity to explore your partner’s creative side.
2. Volunteer Together.
If you want to do something out of the ordinary this Valentine’s Day, try volunteering together. It will give you a glimpse of your partner’s empathy levels. There are many causes and programs that you can support. Besides, it is one of the best ways to spread love during this season.
You can volunteer at a children’s home by organizing a Valentine’s special to cheer the children. Then again, you can cook various foods and distribute them to street families with your partner. Alternatively, you can sign up for a ‘Clean My Planet’ program and spend the day making a difference.
Volunteering allows you to spend quality time together, learn something new about your love, and bond over new shared memories.
3. Dinner and Movie Date.
There is a reason why the classic ‘dinner and movie date’ never goes out of style. Whenever you are in doubt, it is the answer. However, for Valentine’s Day, you need to step up the dinner and movie date. Go big or go big!
Have reservations at a five-star hotel and dress up for it. Indulge in a culinary experience: Try multiple courses and have something different from your usual chicken and chips. Let your partner have a dinner experience worth remembering. If you have to drive there, the better.
Bring it home by booking an entire cinema hall for the movie date. Carry a light blanket and snacks. With just the two of you, cosy up and enjoy your favourite movie. Wouldn’t that be something? Try it this Valentine’s Day.
4. Take a dancing class.
Learn the 1,2,3 steps this Valentine’s Day. Dance classes are fun and will get your heart rate up. Isn’t that what Valentine is all about? The heart. During the dance class, you get to break a sweat and have fun while learning something new.
You can try kizomba dance classes. The music and dance are as sensual as it gets. Perfect for a Valentine’s date. In the same spirit, you can throw a dance party for two. In the comfort of your home, play some tunes and hit the floor (Kitchen/living room) with your partner: waltz, break dance or salsa to your heart’s content. The best part, no one’s watching!
5. Ziplining.
Spend time outdoors and get your adrenaline going this Valentine’s. Ziplining offers a mix of adventure and excitement. It is the perfect chance to build a lasting connection with your partner, build trust, and enhance your communication.
Ziplining over a river or forest provides you with a stunning backdrop for your Valentine’s date. The scenic view enhances the romantic atmosphere. Also, it is an opportunity to create new and lasting memories. Of course, don’t push your partner too hard; let things flow naturally.
6. Couples Dinner.
Many relationship experts organize dinner events for couples during Valentine’s Day. At these dinners, couples receive talks and advice from therapists and psychologists on various relationship matters.
Attending such an event is an experience your relationship would appreciate. You don’t have to have problems to attend but the exposure would give you some insights. Also, you get to see how other couples work and operate. It is worth a try.
7. Spa date.
Want to release some pressure? Try a spa date this Valentine’s. A spa date is not only thoughtful but also timely, especially if you grind hard. The tension in your muscles from consistent work at your job, gym and life needs a release. Get your knots and tightness worked out at a couple’s massage. Relax and decompress. You deserve it.
Better yet, give each other massages. Grab a bottle of body oil, light some scented candles, and play relaxing music in the background. Then, massage your partner for 30 minutes. Take your time and confirm if the pressure is right. When you are done, your partner can thank you by returning the favour.
Happy Valentine’s.♥
Mourine Warui is a media and communication expert and seasoned writer. Her goal is to empower and offer solutions to everyday girl’s problems while provoking candid and authentic conversations. Other goals are to provide inspiration and entertainment to readers through creative, thought-provoking and edgy stories.
